So Disrespectful

Is it disrespectful to have your girl around someone you use to be romantically involved with even if they don't know??

Mary Jane

Yes I think its disrespectful,
If nothing going on now then why don't you tell her.
So the women you have around your girl is your ex,
And she doesn't know that you two have had sex.
Its best that you just tell the truth,
Before someone else does, then its all on you.
It is disrespectful if she's all in your girl face,
I'm sure she'd understand if you pled your case.
If you continue to lie, you will only feel guilty,
And when she finds out, only then you will feel me.

He "IS" cheating

 Just found out my man is cheating what should I do MJ?

Mary Jane
 The only thing that I can do Is give you some advice,
Is this the first time or has it happened more than twice.
You are the only one that can answer this question,
 All I can do is help you with this suggestion.
It sounds to me like you love this man or you'd  already be gone,
 What does he have to say, did he admit that he was wrong.
 If you want to work it out Just dont make it easy ,
You don't want to make him think you're desperate and needy.
 did he come and tell you or did you catch him in the act,
If he wasn't honest with you, what makes you think he won't go back .

You cant touch this

Question
I have a male friend that only wants to please me orally or with his hands. He never try to have sex with me and rejects any offer for me to jack him off or give head what is the problem??


Mary Jane
There could be a lot of different reasons,
But at least your not the only one pleasing.
He could be embarrassed by his size,
Or it may be hard for his dick to rise.
Or maybe he could have an STD,
Or maybe he just doesn't want you to see.
But you really need to have a serious conversation,
And let him know that your getting impatient.
I'm sure he will tell you whatever's the deal,
But are you willing to except whatever is real.
But I'm with you girl, it ain't nothing like the "D",
And whatever the case or problem may be.
Let him be comfortable and go at his pace,
And in the mean time keep sitting on his face.

Stay/go

Question

am in relation with a girl who is not up to my level in bed .. should i change relationships?

Mary Jane

If that's all it take's

to make u leave,

Then go ahead by all means

Because if care for her sex isn't an issue

A relationship that's solid someone who your into

Maybe you should let her know

don't be so quick to up and go

Let her know what you need as a man

Then maybe she will understand

She will never know if you are not open

In time she'll get better I sure am hoping

Everything gets better with time

Just look at it like a taste of fine wine.

But if u don't have patients and rather have another

Then go ahead and find you a suitable lover

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I hope this helps

Mr wrong

Question
Why does my sex drive always rises for the wrong person?

Mary Jane
Sometimes we ignore the signs when its right there in our face,

We take the bad over the good may always be the case.

If the bad out weight the good then u no hes not the one,

They keep u in your feelings but you stay having some fun.

The guys we usually go for always turns out to be wrong,

But why are all the bad ones dick got to be so long.

I dont know what it is for the crazy way I act,

I think it's the way he pull my hair and fuck me from the back.

Or the way he does your body the way no one else can,

If he has u feeling like this then he is probably the wrong man.

I'm always attracted to the same guys from the past,

But it's always seems to me that good guys finish last. 

Hope this helps
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Foot Fetish

Question 1:  My boyfriend has a foot fetish, and he's always admired my feet but I just don't like to have my feet touched.  On certain occasions I've allowed him to rub my feet, but not all the extra stuff he wants to do like suck my toes, kiss my soles, jack him off with my feet or any mess like that.  I've noticed that because of this, this has made him a little frustrated sexually when it comes to our relationship.  I enjoy the sex, but just not when he tries to add my feet into the mix and that's something he enjoys.  I just don't get it and when he tries to explain it to me I'm even more confused.  I don't get why feet, and my feet of all things could arouse someone.  Well, recently I caught him looking at foot fetish videos from foot sites.... video clips of women showing off their feet, jerking guys off with their soles (they call that a "foot job" or something), having their toes sucked, etc. and I haven't spoken to him about it, but I've been seeing it in his browser.  My question to you is..... should I just break up with him and allow him to be with a woman that is more understanding of his fetish?  I love him a lot and don't want our relationship to end, however I see that my lack of cooperation to involve his little "foot fetish" into our sex life is causing him disappointment and frustration.  It seems to be every important to him, and I think it may cause some resentment later on in the relationship.  What should I do?  Maybe I should try letting him get my feet more just to make him happy or am I being selfish if I don't?  From the looks of all these videos I see he's found on the Internet I'm sure he wouldn't have a hard time finding a woman that would enjoy pleasuring him with his feet, but I'm just not down for it like that.  What should I do?

   Mary Jane
I understand where your coming from
and it might seem strange,
But it doesnt matter who your with
all relationship's are insane.
You have to give a Lil to get a Lil
and that's just how it goes,
You should do what it takes to please
your man even if it's with your toes.
Now I'm not saying do what he like's
just to make him stay,
But if your pleasing the man you love
it's such a small price to pay.
Now I can tell you now
people can't change what they desire,
You can either accept this man
or you can just catch fire.
What you won't do someone will
you have to compromise,
But leaving him for something he like
probably wouldn't be wise.

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Big booty vs Lil Booty

Question
Why are Men so obsessed with big booties How can they get hard for an ugly chick with a sexy shape?

Mary Jane

Its the big booty chicks
thats always in reference,

My answer is its all about
a persons personal preference.

What u call a ugly chick,
a man might call her beauty.

Some people like big tittes,
while some like big booties,

Everyone likes something
that the next person can't stand,

But having sex with an ugly
chick is pretty common for a man.

A man will always tell you
that they don't mess with ugly hoes,

These be the main one
fucking God only knows.

 But you have to understand
people can't help how they look,

And beauty doesn't mean a thing,
If you cant open up a book.

I hope this helps
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