So Disrespectful

Is it disrespectful to have your girl around someone you use to be romantically involved with even if they don't know??

Mary Jane

Yes I think its disrespectful,
If nothing going on now then why don't you tell her.
So the women you have around your girl is your ex,
And she doesn't know that you two have had sex.
Its best that you just tell the truth,
Before someone else does, then its all on you.
It is disrespectful if she's all in your girl face,
I'm sure she'd understand if you pled your case.
If you continue to lie, you will only feel guilty,
And when she finds out, only then you will feel me.

He "IS" cheating

 Just found out my man is cheating what should I do MJ?

Mary Jane
 The only thing that I can do Is give you some advice,
Is this the first time or has it happened more than twice.
You are the only one that can answer this question,
 All I can do is help you with this suggestion.
It sounds to me like you love this man or you'd  already be gone,
 What does he have to say, did he admit that he was wrong.
 If you want to work it out Just dont make it easy ,
You don't want to make him think you're desperate and needy.
 did he come and tell you or did you catch him in the act,
If he wasn't honest with you, what makes you think he won't go back .

You cant touch this

Question
I have a male friend that only wants to please me orally or with his hands. He never try to have sex with me and rejects any offer for me to jack him off or give head what is the problem??


Mary Jane
There could be a lot of different reasons,
But at least your not the only one pleasing.
He could be embarrassed by his size,
Or it may be hard for his dick to rise.
Or maybe he could have an STD,
Or maybe he just doesn't want you to see.
But you really need to have a serious conversation,
And let him know that your getting impatient.
I'm sure he will tell you whatever's the deal,
But are you willing to except whatever is real.
But I'm with you girl, it ain't nothing like the "D",
And whatever the case or problem may be.
Let him be comfortable and go at his pace,
And in the mean time keep sitting on his face.

Stay/go

Question

am in relation with a girl who is not up to my level in bed .. should i change relationships?

Mary Jane

If that's all it take's

to make u leave,

Then go ahead by all means

Because if care for her sex isn't an issue

A relationship that's solid someone who your into

Maybe you should let her know

don't be so quick to up and go

Let her know what you need as a man

Then maybe she will understand

She will never know if you are not open

In time she'll get better I sure am hoping

Everything gets better with time

Just look at it like a taste of fine wine.

But if u don't have patients and rather have another

Then go ahead and find you a suitable lover

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I hope this helps