Asleep in the sack

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I am in relation with a girl who is not up to my level in bed .. should i change relationships?

Mary Jane

If that's all it take's
to make u leave,
Then go ahead by all means.
Because if care for her sex isn't an issue,
A relationship that's solid someone who your into.
Maybe you should let her know,
don't be so quick to up and go.
Let her know what you need as a man,
Then maybe she will understand.
She will never know if you are not open,
In time she'll get better I sure am hoping.
Everything gets better with time,
Just look at it like a taste of fine wine.
But if u don't have patients and rather have another,
Then go ahead and find you a suitable lover.

Emotional Abuse

Emotional abuse

Jen Smith

Sick and tired
I'm sick and tired of being called "idiot,stupid,dumb ass...bitch" it's cutting me a little too close for comfort and I'm ready to say eff if and punch him in the face....we have a ten month old little girl and been together 10 yrs with breaks.... Only problem is... I don't know how to function with out him... Been years since I worked and been a homebody for few years straight....I have developing social anxiety having panic attacks when I leave my home or see some one....he has me believing I won't make it without him.....my anger is building up getting stronger I'm almost crossing the line of going bat shit crazy.... Where do I start?!?!!

Mary Jane

Don't let someone effect how you feel about you,
You need to love yourself because your relationship is through.
If someone loves you they don't say thing's
That hurt,
Take a look at yourself and know your worth.
The best revenge is letting them see you on top,
Believe in yourself and you can't be stopped.
You have a baby that sees everything you do,
Let her see that your strong in everything that you do.
Don't let a man decide your fate,
Get help  from God he will always a make a way.
Everything will work out if only you pray,
Get out don't look back just start a new day.

So Disrespectful

Is it disrespectful to have your girl around someone you use to be romantically involved with even if they don't know??

Mary Jane

Yes I think its disrespectful,
If nothing going on now then why don't you tell her.
So the women you have around your girl is your ex,
And she doesn't know that you two have had sex.
Its best that you just tell the truth,
Before someone else does, then its all on you.
It is disrespectful if she's all in your girl face,
I'm sure she'd understand if you pled your case.
If you continue to lie, you will only feel guilty,
And when she finds out, only then you will feel me.

He "IS" cheating

 Just found out my man is cheating what should I do MJ?

Mary Jane
 The only thing that I can do Is give you some advice,
Is this the first time or has it happened more than twice.
You are the only one that can answer this question,
 All I can do is help you with this suggestion.
It sounds to me like you love this man or you'd  already be gone,
 What does he have to say, did he admit that he was wrong.
 If you want to work it out Just dont make it easy ,
You don't want to make him think you're desperate and needy.
 did he come and tell you or did you catch him in the act,
If he wasn't honest with you, what makes you think he won't go back .

You cant touch this

Question
I have a male friend that only wants to please me orally or with his hands. He never try to have sex with me and rejects any offer for me to jack him off or give head what is the problem??


Mary Jane
There could be a lot of different reasons,
But at least your not the only one pleasing.
He could be embarrassed by his size,
Or it may be hard for his dick to rise.
Or maybe he could have an STD,
Or maybe he just doesn't want you to see.
But you really need to have a serious conversation,
And let him know that your getting impatient.
I'm sure he will tell you whatever's the deal,
But are you willing to except whatever is real.
But I'm with you girl, it ain't nothing like the "D",
And whatever the case or problem may be.
Let him be comfortable and go at his pace,
And in the mean time keep sitting on his face.

Stay/go

Question

am in relation with a girl who is not up to my level in bed .. should i change relationships?

Mary Jane

If that's all it take's

to make u leave,

Then go ahead by all means

Because if care for her sex isn't an issue

A relationship that's solid someone who your into

Maybe you should let her know

don't be so quick to up and go

Let her know what you need as a man

Then maybe she will understand

She will never know if you are not open

In time she'll get better I sure am hoping

Everything gets better with time

Just look at it like a taste of fine wine.

But if u don't have patients and rather have another

Then go ahead and find you a suitable lover

Maryjanequestions@gmail.com

I hope this helps

Mr wrong

Question
Why does my sex drive always rises for the wrong person?

Mary Jane
Sometimes we ignore the signs when its right there in our face,

We take the bad over the good may always be the case.

If the bad out weight the good then u no hes not the one,

They keep u in your feelings but you stay having some fun.

The guys we usually go for always turns out to be wrong,

But why are all the bad ones dick got to be so long.

I dont know what it is for the crazy way I act,

I think it's the way he pull my hair and fuck me from the back.

Or the way he does your body the way no one else can,

If he has u feeling like this then he is probably the wrong man.

I'm always attracted to the same guys from the past,

But it's always seems to me that good guys finish last. 

Hope this helps
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